Rosalilium: Be kind. *** We are dynamic living beings with a huge range of emotions, a long history of experiences, and diverse situations... why would we expect others to react the same in any given moment? *** Let’s all be a bit kinder to one another, for we never
Rosalilium: Rose and green tea to soothe the soul. I’m working hard on figuring out my work, career and business which requires some real soul searching. Only problem is, my mind gets distracted by all the noise. The noise of what everyone else is doing. The noise of
Rosalilium: Therapy day today. It was good. Hard. Tearful. Intense. But good. I want to be authentic about my mental health journey here because I am keen to see a world where physical and mental illnesses are treated equally. That means, even when it feels like some
Rosalilium: Superhero in his sleep - Bear the cat is busy fighting off feline evils in the land of nod. *** Does anybody else’s cat sleep in unusual positions??? *** #amazonpets #catsstagram #bestmeow #cutecatclub #excellent_cats #petscorner #instafluff #pawpack
Rosalilium: I got the Instagram-famous jumpsuit from M&S. It looked so fab on everyone else that I couldn’t resist. And my thoughts are this... it’s so darn comfy, and easy to wear, and looks kinda cute and stylish. The fabric is a little too manmade-y for my liking,
Rosalilium: I’m answering questions on inter-racial relationships over on my Instagram stories. * After sharing some snaps from our trip to Leicester to buy saris I received some messages about my experience of being in an inter-racial couple. After 8 years of being
Rosalilium: Take time to stop. Stand still in silence. And listen to yourself. We keep ourselves busy busy busy that we can find that we are swept along with ‘life stuff’. We think we are making choices, but what if we are just reacting to circumstances instead of ac
Rosalilium: Being a rebel is a state of mind rather than an action. I’ve been a bit of a rebel my entire life, but not because I was doing things I shouldn’t. Being a rebel isn’t always about breaking the rules, or being naughty. Being a rebel is about challenging, c
Rosalilium: Goodbye July, you were a crazy hectic month. I’ve had some great times, but I must admit that I’m kinda looking forward to my quiet August. It’s time to regroup after the highs and lows of July, and I’m hoping for a steady month. August for me is going to
Rosalilium: I had a rather adventurous few days away this weekend. It started with a trip down to Bristol to celebrate our first wedding anniversary - we loved our time in this new-to-us city, we walked, enjoyed the searing heat, ate incredible seafood, drank wine, I
Rosalilium: New post on elizabethdhokia.com and it’s all about how setting boundaries has been one of the most important self-care actions I have taken for my mental health. I talk about how, as a nurturing kind of person, I have not really had any boundaries histori
Rosalilium: #BeMoreWitWitWoo - today we are celebrating Kate’s life with a #swimsuitselfie or #bikiniselfie - she was the kind of woman who believed that getting a bikini body was to get a bikini and put it on your body. She was funny, fun, and full of life. Today le
Rosalilium: Thank you for all of the kind messages this week. It’s been intense. Today I made myself get to the gym to swim for a bit. I was the first one in the pool and fell into an almost meditative state watching the water ripple as I slowly glided along in the s
Rosalilium: This week is proving to most challenging. Is there something in the air?! My beloved cat, Bear, somehow got out of a top floor wedding and fell. I legged it downstairs to get to him and he hopped back into the house. I think he had a fright and he was lim
Rosalilium: A week ago I was sneaking into hotel bars, posing in front of glorious sunsets, sipping delicious cocktails, and listening to amazing music... I loved my adventure to Ibiza with my love. But less than a day later my Granny had a major stroke and hospitali
Rosalilium: The holiday is over! We have had an amazing time in Ibiza, and still love the island as much as before. There are some many different vibes to the Ibiza so whatever type of holiday you’re after you can usually find your tribe and location. We’re already p
Rosalilium: Shrouded in myth and legend, Es Vedrà is an uninhabited rock just off the south of Ibiza. We spontaneously drove through steep winding roads in our tiny hire car to make the short trek up to the view point here god sunset. It was glorious. There is someth
Rosalilium: There is so much more to Ibiza than you think. It’s not all superclubs and sunsets, there is the beautiful medieval quarter around the cathedral and fortification in the old town of Ibiza. It’s a maze of higgedly-piggedly cobbled streets set into a steep
Rosalilium: Sunny Ibiza days... #ibiza #ibiza🌴 #bluemarlin #bluemarlinibiza #ibiza2018 #beachclub #luxurytravel #girlsvsglobe #instatravel #travelgram #ibizalifestyle #balearics
Rosalilium: Quiet contemplation or taking a rest from the exhausting climb up the hill in 30C heat? *** #ibiza #ibiza🌴 #ibizatown #travelgram #girlsvsglobe #instatravel
Rosalilium: It’s almost impossible to relax...but I’ll do my best. We’re attempting to de-stress this week on the beautiful island of Ibiza. We don’t have any deadlines, deliverables, or work to do, we are here to just relax and recharge. Ibiza has a reputation as a
Rosalilium: We have to stop talking about bodies in order to be truly body positive. It’s finally made sense to me and so I’ve shared how I’ve reached this epiphany on my blog today (link in my profile if you’re interested). I am no longer to talk about, or objectify
Rosalilium: Happy weekend beautiful friends. I hope you fill your days with fun, relaxation, or simple joyful moments. And I would like to say a super massive huge thank you for all of the thoughtful comments so many of you shared with me yesterday. I feel humbled by
Rosalilium: Sometimes it feels like you’re shouting into a void. The noisy world of social media, everyone’s with a megaphone broadcasting their lives, opinions, content, and more. Does your voice matter? Can it even be heard in that cacophony on tweets and insta-pic
Rosalilium: Hands up if your bedside table looks like this! 🙋‍♀️ I have a huge pile of books on the go and I’ve developed a bit of a bad habit where I keep dipping in and out of them. I mean, it’s great that I’m constantly getting inspired by so many gre
Rosalilium: Dreaming of the beautiful sunsets in Cornwall... it’s been a couple of weeks since our stay at eco-luxury spa @scarlethotel and I’m still thinking about the amazing food, relaxing treatments, and stunning scenary. It really is an ideal spot for relaxation
Rosalilium: Feeling gently determined today. Not in a go-kick-butt kind of way, but rather work-with-purpose. I have been sending out a few invites to potential interviewees for my podcast and the response for the most part has been super positive. There was one ‘rej
Rosalilium: Yesterday was a memorable one! We were invited to the Biggest Weekend with @bbcradio2 in Coventry. Despite the crazy weather we hopped in the car and mosied on down to @average_chap’s hometown for an afternoon of music and mud. I donned my fave wellies an
Rosalilium: This week I am honouring mental health awareness week by wearing my swishy bright pink skirt, something that makes me smile every time I wear it. Many of you might know, I have suffered with a mental illness for 20 years. It’s not something many people li
Rosalilium: New book alert! I’ve just received this new book all about anxiety by @_sarahwilson_ It’s called ‘first we make the beast beautiful’ and the cover, as you can see, is stunning. * The book aims to offer digestible content as Sarah shares insights that hope