Michaele Ashley: Lunch outside Lansing, Michigan with the family.
Michaele Ashley: Family coming in the picture- one by one ❤️❤️❤️ Michigan family vacation.
Michaele Ashley: Straight hair. Usually curled with this topper, but I think I like it 😊
Michaele Ashley: Quick pic b4 heading out to 2 week follow up of surgical castration (orchiectomy). I really think I see a difference. I certainly FEEL a difference in such an amazing way.
Michaele Ashley: Nine days following orchi… my first outing. Seeing the Van Gogh experience in NYC and having lunch at Honeybrains. Meliss drove through a tropical storm to get there, but the weather cleared. Def a big step getting out of the house!
Michaele Ashley: Surgery success! I am no longer able to naturally produce testosterone, and I am rejoicing and recovering. Also, feeling a loss, which is hard to explain. Complex transition.
Michaele Ashley: Now. Now, it is time.
Michaele Ashley: Ready for my wife’s birthday party. 3 days til gender confirmation surgery ❤️
Michaele Ashley: This was my outfit for our family reunion today. It felt amazing to show off who I am, and I was so more engaged with all the conversations around me. 4 days til GCS!
Michaele Ashley: Announcing my Carnegie Hall debut as a composer! Spring of 2022! It takes a village and we did it!
Michaele Ashley: With my daughter at a local Pride church service. Lovely morning with an incredibly beautiful congregation.
Michaele Ashley: 20 days until THE surgery. Heading into NYC for doc appointments!
Michaele Ashley: I am think of adding an “e” to my name, making it legally “Michaele”. That should help with strangers automatically assuming I am male when they see my name. Photo taken on Saco River in the White Mountains.
Michaele Ashley: I am think of adding an “e” to my name, making it legally “Michaele”. That should help with strangers automatically assuming I am male when they see my name. Photo with my mother in the White Mountains.
Michaele Ashley: On the balcony to heaven (IMO), with my daughter, who I recently discovered is fiercely protective of me and my trans identity. It feels so good to be me and to be freely me. Mount Washington, NH
Michaele Ashley: Lunch with my mom in a rainy North Conway... cold but food was delicious! I love New Hampshire.
Michaele Ashley: Family celebration of my 50th
Michaele Ashley: Family celebration of my 50th
Michaele Ashley: Today I am 50 years old! A big accomplishment!
Michaele Ashley: I’m 50! Who’s in this club, and what wonderful things have happened in your life after reaching this beautiful milestone?
Michaele Ashley: This past year, I seek to find beauty in a deeply traumatized body and mind. Every time since age 5, my body fails, I overcome. I will again re-emerge stronger.
Michaele Ashley: After months and months away from extended family, today we host Easter. So anxious about wearing a topper, but mother-in-law says at the table, “I really like your hair color, Mike!” This means the world to me.
Michaele Ashley: Happy Thanksgiving!
Michaele Ashley: Family Christmas photo shoot
Michaele Ashley: The beach
Michaele Ashley: Feeling joyful. About to head to the beach for our family’s Christmas card photo. What a year it’s been!
Michaele Ashley: Hey there 😊
Michaele Ashley: My own hair- no extensions, no wigs, toppers. It feels a bit “naked”, and it’s professionally styled, but I’m learning to love it. And myself.